Monday, 18 May 2009
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What are best friends for?
How does a friend make it up to your list of best friends?
It seems that the only best friends that I have are those that I survived the crazy school years. The ones that I can trust wholeheartedly, jabber non-stop on the phone, searched alongside with me through the identity crisis, the first time i fell in and out of love and are comforted simply because we know that we will always be there to hold each other hands no matter what happens. As I grow older it seems that best friends are the ones i carried from the past. And it means more with the years of friendship.
What does a best friend mean to you?
That no matter when, no matter where, we can still count on each other. That we care. That we are still part of each other's lives.
When does a best friend becomes simply just a friend?
It is when one day I realised that I mean just a friend to them. When they no longer call. When they no longer meet for coffee, meals. When I didnt want to cry to them at the lowest point of my life. When it comes to the most important event of their lives, it didnt matter that I was left out of their joy. Today I realised.



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